In Kashmiri there are
certain lexical items which function as 'attention catchers'. These may be used
to attract the attention of a person. Not all of these are polite, but they
still have a high frequency in colloquial Kashmiri. Note the following:
Masculine
Feminine
Ranking
on the honorific scale
Status
constraints
Religious
constraints
impolite,
informal
addressee
equal or lower
impolite,
informal
addressee
equal or lower
neutral
equal
respectful
addressee
equal or higher
addressee
Hindu
respectful
addressee
equal or higher
addressee or
addressor Muslim
polite
addressee
equal or higher
polite
equal
Note that in Srinagar the use of
is more or less restricted to the speech of the older generation. Its place has
been taken by the more frequent .
Examples:
In the above examples, (a) is
unacceptable on the scale of politeness, and (c) may be termed extra-polite.